Prayers are a big part of what makes a church wedding unique. It’s not just the vicar who prays – everyone gets involved.

Most grooms will choose a best man (or woman) from their family or ask a close friend to support them in the run up to their wedding day and on the day itself. With a little advance planning, a ‘best man’ can help the day run like clockwork.

Everyone at a wedding is part of the service, whether you’re doing something specific like a Bible reading or not  – you are witnesses to the marriage and part of the couple’s married life too.

When you're thinking about a wedding, you'll have lots of questions. We're here to help. 

A brief walk-though the wedding ceremony

Whether you’re going to a wedding as a guest, or have a special role in the wedding party, everyone at a church wedding is warmly welcomed.

Here you can begin thinking about your ideas for hymns, readings, prayers and music and download a ceremony planning booklet to help.

Here you can begin thinking about your ideas for hymns, readings, prayers and music and download a ceremony planning booklet to help.

Congratulations on your engagement! An exciting and happy time lies ahead and there will be so much to think about. If you’re wondering how to make a start on all the planning and preparations for the service, this section will guide you.

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